Monday, November 24, 2014

Will the real community please stand up, please stand up, please stand up? (Part 1)

For a number of years now I have been walking through a blizzard of the word community.  That word seems to be EVERYWHERE.  I read books about community, am part of a number of on-line communities, I go to a community church, politicians talk about community, I even wrote my Masters thesis (in part) about community.  However, I think the word community no longer means anything.  


People throw around the word community like we all agree on what it means.  Most of the time when I hear the word community being used it could easily be replaced with acquaintances, group of people, or at best fellowship.  It seems to me that community is much, much more than just having similar interests, using the same website or app, or sharing a location on a regular basis.  

Some of the most egregious abusers of the word community can be found in the Christian world.  In this sphere community flows out of the mouths of leaders and drips off the pages of books with rarely a thought to what it really means.  For Christians seeking to engage the world in a Biblical way, a theology of community grounded in Scripture is invaluable. Without a clear understanding of the nature of community in Scripture, we can quickly end up providing/experiencing only shallow interactions or services – neither of which truly fosters biblical community.

Genesis 4:1-11 provides a scriptural basis for a practical theology of community.  This passage, the story of Cain and Abel, is about the first murder and seems like an unlikely place to discover a truth about community. In fact, a surface reading of the story fails to capture the corporate truth contained in the exchange of questions between Cain and God. After killing his brother over worship practices and the perception of God’s favor (making our modern worship wars look penny-ante), Cain is confronted by God, “Cain, where is your brother?” To which the Cain replies, “Am I my brother’s keeper?” In the hermeneutical understanding of Miroslav Volf, this short exchange teaches us that “life in community means sharing a common social space and taking responsibility for the other.”[1]

Taking Volf’s explanation of community as a guide in formulating a theology of community, we must first begin by asking what a shared social space is and how can one foster an environment where that situation can exist and flourish. From the very beginning (Gen. 1:18-21) Scripture shows that it is not good for man (humans) to be alone. Furthermore, Acts 2 displays the new followers of Jesus as being very communal. They met together daily, shared everything in common, ate together and worshiped together. This passage exposes the very early Christian church as a tight knit group that shared a common social space daily. In a related passage the writer of Hebrews reminds the followers of Christ to not give up meeting together (Heb. 10:19-25), acknowledging the tendency of people to neglect communal gatherings although shared social space is necessary for true Christian community to exist. The Apostle Paul also reflects this sense of community. Paul’s understanding of community is deeply based in the belief that God is assembling a people to live among and work through and is not just saving individuals from hell. Writing on this topic, Gordon Fee states that “though entered individually, the church as a whole is the object of God’s saving activity in Christ. God is choosing and saving a people for his name.”[2] Fee as a Pentecostal scholar is touching on a truth that is vital in the Eastern branch of the church.  Russian Orthodox Archpreist Michael Oleksa states it this way: “No one is ‘saved’ or justified as an isolated individual. Each person is transformed in community, in and through loving, eternal relationships to others.”[3] This thought is also part of the African understanding of community and the nature of being human. For example, Archbishop Desmond Tutu often speaks of this: “I am what I am because of who we all are,”[4] “A person is a person through other persons,”[5] and “If I diminish you, I diminish myself.”[6] In each of these statements is a profound sense of community.

In spite of this insightful understanding of community in Paul’s writings, the Eastern Church, and in the African tradition, for many mainstream North American Christians community amounts to nothing more than fellowship.  While sitting around a campfire a few years ago this truth became extremely clear to me.  A friend was explaining how she and her husband had decided on which church to attend.  Ending her story she said, “It’s really about where you find your fellowship.” I disagreed saying that I believed that it’s a matter of where you find your community.  She shot back, “Well, those words mean the same thing.” Many Christians believe as does my friend does that community and fellowship are the same thing. However, there is a difference. For me, it is possible to fellowship with a great many different kinds of people but those folks have no right to speak into my life because we lack a depth of relationship. However, my community is the people I share my life with, the good and the bad parts. In those relationships, there is a shared social space and experience and also a sense of taking responsibility for one another. This is biblical community.  Far too often in our contemporary world we are so hungry for meaningful interactions that we settle for believing that any and every gathering of people is a community, when many (even those found at church) are fellowship at best.

In addition to seeing community and fellowship as the same thing, there is also the tendency in the church to view community as a program. One joins a small group to experience community. In preparation for my Masters thesis I led a discussion of the topic of Christian community with the local evangelical pastors fellowship.[7] During this discussion it was interesting to observe that the pastors were almost completely unable to discuss the nature of Christian community outside the context of the local church and its programs. While unquantified and anecdotal, the discussion reinforced my position that in the Christian world today community is seen as a program one enters into and not a living reality of the resurrection.

The barrier to Biblical community I hear the most often is that people are too busy to share a social space together which in turn makes it nearly impossible to take responsibility for one another.  However, I believe that busyness is an excuse and that the real reasons for not entering into true biblical community with one another are individualism, fear of others, and a lack of understanding our own personal identities. Writing on the topic of community, Gordon Fee states that the holy trinity of relativism, secularism, and individualism is at work in modern life. He concludes that the “individual is the be-all and end-all of everything; subservience of individual rights to the common good has become the new ‘heresy’ to be rejected at all costs.”[8] Discussing this topic with a few members of my community a friend remarked, “Community is more than grabbing a few beers.”

While misunderstandings about and barriers to community exist in the church today, one must understand that the Scripture is dripping with images of community. Rob Bell offers this insight:

The Bible is a communal book. It came from people writing in communities, and it was often written to communities... For most of church history, people heard the Bible read aloud in a room full of people. You heard it, discussed it, studied it, argued about it, and made decisions about it as a group, a community.[9]

Addressing the modern church’s objections to community, Henri J.M. Nouwen writes:
We keep forgetting that we are being sent out two by two. We cannot bring good news on our own. We are called to proclaim the Gospel together, in community…I have found over and over again how hard it is to be truly faithful to Jesus when I am alone…We should not only live in community, but also minister in community.[10]  Simply put, “We’ve just forgotten that we belong to each other.”[11]

Returning to Volf’s understanding of community – “sharing a common social space and taking responsibility for the other”[12] – it is important to understand the pervasive theme of God’s incarnation before proceeding from the idea of shared social space to the matter of taking responsibility for each other. God’s consistent incarnational approach to his people, reflected in his abiding solidarity, is the key model of community in Scripture, which starts in the beginning with a God who creates humans with whom to be in community. Then God daily enters into his creation to take daily walks with the humans he has created. When Adam and Eve chose to disobey God, he went looking for them and made coverings for them to hide their nakedness. God came to Abraham, wrestled with Jacob, and lived alongside his people in a tent for forty years as they wandered in the desert. The prophets, while being God’s presence with the people, continually point to a time when God would come and be with them. When Jesus arrives he comes in the form of a created human living in the creation of God. Jesus enters into the experience of being human in every way, even dying – the ultimate state of any human. At the moment of the cross, Jesus moves from being with us to inviting us into himself in an even higher level of community. Speaking of this truth Miroslav Volf writes, “On the cross the dancing circle of self-giving and mutually indwelling divine persons opens up for the enemy; in the agony of the passion the movement stops for a brief moment a fissure appears so that sinful humanity can join in.”[13] Even when Jesus leaves the created earth physically he leaves behind his Spirit and in that way continues to dwell with his people. The pages of Scripture teach us that God is with His people. If one is to follow God they will seek to be a reflection of this reality by intentional and incarnationally sharing social space with others.

In my frustration with the overuse of the word community, I wonder if our desire to label every interpersonal interaction (no matter how small) as community is a reflection on the fact that so few of us experience any social space where we take care of each other?  In the end community seems elusive.  Will the real community please stand up, please stand up, please stand up?

Joel K
twitter:  @joel_kiek

"Sometimes you can't make it on your own"
- U2



(1) Volf, Exclusion and Embrace, 98.
(2) Gordon D. Fee, Paul, the Spirit, and the People of God (Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers, 1996), 65.
(3) Oleksa, Orthodox Alaska, 51.
(4) Desmond Tutu, Believe: The Words and Inspiration of Desmond Tutu (Boulder, CO: Blue Mountain Press, 2007), back cover.
(5) Ibid., 33.
(6) Ibid., 3.
(7) Anchorage Evangelical Pastors Fellowship, Parachutes Teen-Club and Resource Center, 29 April 2010.
(8) Fee, Paul, The Spirit and the People of God, 63.
(9) Bell, Velvet Elvis, 51, 52.
(10) Nouwen, The Way of Jesus, 40-42.
(11) Boyle, Tattoos on the Heart, 187.
(12) Volf, 98.
(13) Volf, 129.

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Friday, November 21, 2014

Longevity: Staying Put for the Glory of God

Next semester I am teaching a class on Youth Ministry for Alaska Bible College.  So I have been pouring over the existing syllabus and thinking through what I would add to the content.  The course has been built around the 9 Core Realities of Youth Ministry that Mike Yaconelli outlined in his book The Core Realities of Youth Ministry: Nine Biblical Principles That Mark Healthy Youth Ministries.  Yaconelli's list includes: veracity, authenticity, audacity, humility, diversity, sanctuary, intimacy, mystery, and creativity.  I've been a fan of Mike's for years, and that book offers a wonderful list, but I noticed one core value I hold in high esteem missing - longevity.


Longevity was modeled for me by my father.  Dad was a Youth Pastor for over 30 years and I saw in his life many, many times the benefit of staying in one area for a long time and maintaining relationships that moved from youth group through college and into adulthood.  He even noted to me at times that it takes a long time for good things to happen.  Looking back I think I gathered from him that longevity is the living out of the reality that things happen on God's time schedule.
  
For 11 years I literally stood in the same spot in my city.  I was in the Dimond Center Mall basically everyday for 13 years and for 11 of those I was in Parachutes Teen Club and Resource Center.  The benefit of that long term dedication to a location and a population (in this case high-risk and street-involved teens) is that I have the privilege of knowing a bunch of teens and young adults I would have never known had I only stayed for the 18 months to two years that most remain in a Youth Ministry position.  I've seen the value of longevity in my life as it has opened the door to relationships and transformation.  Often the youth we serve don't divulge to the realities of their lives and needs till years have passed.  


I don't write this from the position of someone who has this figured out, is blowing his own horn, or is pointing the finger at those that have left ministry positions after short periods of time.  Longevity is something I am still learning.  I often think about moving on.  I have gone through long periods of time where I have begged God to give me something else to do or a new place to be.  But I think God is teaching me that there is power in not moving.


I'd already been thinking about this topic for a couple of days when yesterday I read When Risking it All for God Means Staying Where You Are.  In that article the author writes:


"I can say that the risks I’ve taken to follow God have come in many forms and actions. I’ve quit a job and moved to another state to pursue a calling to ministry by going to seminary. I’ve stayed put in a place during a very difficult time when it would have been easier to go—and now look back to see the fruit God was bearing. I’ve jumped for the sake of “taking a risk for God” and found that I was really just following my own desire to be somebody—and landed flat on my face. I’ve stayed in a place when, looking back, it was clear God wanted me to move on—but I was too scared to do so. In any case, God used my decision, my risk, my going and staying, and I learned something through it, something about myself, something about Him."



I agree that there are lots of risks we can take for God, but we don't often see those that stay put and stay steady as risking anything.  We want to see risk takers in life and in ministry, but how often do we applaud those that embed in a place, with a people, and stay for a long time?  What if we started to see longevity, not as an abnormality or oddity, but as one of the options for how we live a risky life of following Jesus?  What if we see both Paul's approach to ministry (moving from city to city traveling and taking risks - the action packed stories that fill the Book of Acts) and Phillip's approach to ministry (staying in Caesarea teaching his four daughters to be prophets and barely being mentioned in the book of Acts {21:8&9}) as valid?  


Mike Yaconelli once wrote an article titled "Getting fired for the glory of God,"  can we also stay put for the glory of God?

Joel K

"Got to get behind the Mule

In the morning and plow

Got to get behind the Mule
In the morning and plow...


Pin your ear to the wisdom post

Pin your eye to the line

Never let the weeds get higher
 than the garden

Always keep a sapphire in your mind

Always keep a diamond in your mind...


Got to get behind the Mule

In the morning and plow

Got to get behind the Mule

In the morning and plow..."


~ Tom Waits Get Behind The Mule

Sunday, November 9, 2014

St. Vincent and a Theology of Imperfection


The Glory of God is humanity fully alive.
- St. Irenaeus

One of the communities I am a part of, Street Psalms (http://www.streetpsalms.org), talks a good bit about the spirituality of imperfection.  In fact one of quotes that still rattles around my brain years after taking part in classes with that grassroots ministry training organization is "I don't trust my strengths anymore.  I trust my weaknesses, they are more honest."  In a world where everything is "strength-based" this type of thinking is like a foreign language to our ears.  Most of us are familiar with seeking to maximize our strengths and minimize our weaknesses.  The stark reality is that beyond maximizing what we are good at, we'd do well to NEVER expose any weakness - certainly not in public.  We have all seen it before a leader has a public gaffe or admits a shortcoming and their position as a leader disappears.  This is most true for leaders in faith communities where being overly transparent is both scarce and scary.  Pastors and other leaders of faith tend to guard their imperfections from those they lead for fear of losing their ability to minister.  Often, being seen as "too human" is a condition that makes the "product" they are producing seem suspect to those consuming it.

In the middle of this dependance on duplicity for those dedicated and devoted (even mastering) divinity is the reality that we are all broken people.  All of us have weaknesses.  However, Sainthood it seems does not want to see the imperfections, just the inspiration.  Mother Teresa did not want the personal letters that became the book "Come Be My Light" which chronicled her vivid feelings of estrangement from God to be released.  In the end her letters of lack of faith were published and she went on being lauded for her work among the poor, not her honesty about the struggle of faith.

Yesterday night I sat in a movie theater and cried.  I don't often cry at movies, but I sat in the dark next to my wife and daughters and choked back tears as I watched St. Vincent.  In fact I did more than choke back tears, I did the work of making sure that I, a full-grown man, did not blubber like a toddler in public.  The story on the screen was the best example of the reality of the Spirituality of Imperfection I have ever seen.  In short Bill Murray's character, the "seriously flawed" Vincent is nominated for Saint Hood by his young neighbor.  While Vincent is an alcohol bathed curmudgeon who is a victim of many vices, he also turns out to be a man who cares for people (and his cat) and loves life.  He is about as flawed as a person can be, but he is a saint.  Just like you and me...if we can stop fooling ourselves and those around us long enough to be honest.

Another quote that follows me around is one of my instructors saying, "maybe we care more about what we do than God does."  That statement messed me up for a long time because so much of what we do is tied to how we see people, but as time wears on I wonder if it is more about we humans looking at the outward appearance and God looking at the heart.  Toward the end of another piece of film I love Bruce Springsteen says, "I think whatever divinity we can claim to is hidden in the core of our humanity, and when we let go, when we let our compassion go, we let go of what little claim we have to the divine."  I thick Bruce is right, whatever divinity we can put our hands on is buried deep inside our humanity.  When we admit our humanness, our brokeness, our need for God - then God comes near.  When we stop trying to be perfect and expecting those around us to be flawless we see God acting in our midst.  We are all sinners and saints.

"flowers growing out of the desert
flowers out of parched ground
flowers coming right up through the cracks
of the pavement in your old town
flowering's not a science
it's more like a fine art
flowers coming right up through the cracks
of our broke up little hearts

we all need new beginnings
the first steps make you better
maybe you're just a prayer away
from getting your shit together"

~ Flowers by Bill Mallonee

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

New Sermon

I had the privilege to preach this past Sunday at Crosspoint Community Church in Anchorage, AK (my home congregation) on the topic "Why are you called Christian?"  You can hear it at:  http://www.crosspointcommunity.com/sermons/  (part of the Q&A series - week 2)